love n faithfullness (2)

u know what?

in reality, most of us generally think it is ok if we cheat... while ensuring the other partner remains in blissful ignorance. cause cheating & hurting is distingushed. i duno how much this speaks about our morals though. anyway.

TIGER WOODS & MISTRESSES & CHEATING?! FAIL. bad bad case of cheating & hurting. supreme bad choice of mistresses. i somehow vaguely remember that in those saucy sms that Woods exchanged with the mistresses, he had texted something along the lines of i-love-you. well, the mistresses loved him back! if the women did indeed love him, they must have love him deeply enough to see him going through his current state of being.

random note:

ROMANIAN DIPLOMAT & Hit-&Run? SUPER FAIL. supreme bad case of cheating , hurting & killing! i really hope u receive the supreme karma for what you did & didnt!! even though this clearly illustrates how UNFAIR life can be.

love and faithfulness

sometimes, i wonder if the best & luckiest thing that has happen to me ... is that i have my kungfu panda/bf to be with me. i wont say he is The One... but i guess he is pretty close. i'd given up wishing for a handsome perfect partner... handsome cant bring u a piece of mind. perfect does not exist. i really do think and admit that what he has given me is more than what i had given him.

i remember reading somewhere that guys are programe to be polygamous while girls believe in monogamy. sometimes i wonder, how does it feel like to be a gf of a handsome bf who cheats, but return to your arms (faithfully) at the end of the day? how much does being faithful matters in a committed r/s?

my insides are twisting as i imagine the girl. will the girl think it is OK , so long it is just a short-lived fling/ ONS? is it OK if it was JUST once? twice? less than 10 times? is it ok, so long that she is kept from knowing?

maybe at the end of the day, ignorance is bliss. most/some women dun mind closing one eye as long as they see no evidence right in front of their eyes. n even if there is evidence, men gets forgiven anyway.

sigh. love is blind.

mother tongue

i heard what is syllabus B for mother tongue. but i didnt really know what it consists of. i just know that it is easier.

apparently, syllabus b learns chinese through hanyupin. & no1 cares if they cant read and write chinese to a certain level.

gosh!!!i plainly think it is awfully shameful that a chinese person cant read and write chinese well. some kids claim they have no interest in chinse- they just dun have interest in this subject. some parents just take this in their stride and accepts their claims and nvr encourage them to take up proper chinese. & it came as a surprise to me that parents accept so calmly.

if i say i have no interest in science, does that mean i should take easier level of science? no way! at least back in my sch days. it simply means i need work harder and practise and read more and more.

i would think this is a reversal of situation faced... say in the seventies ? or eighties? surely the chinese people then, who in the first place have the lucky opportunity to study in a sch, have bigger trouble understanding english than chinese. i wonder did the parents then say.. OK, lets just forget about english. why do u need english anyway?

blog advertising

i noticed CK watches doing product placement on one of the top blogshops.

imy impression of the brand CK plummeted. it's like, COME ON. Isnt CK supposed to be retailing in Paragon???? Somewhat high-end? even if i am mistaken, isnt this sort of mistakes a favourable one for CK?

& now?? it downgraded to Blogshop??? No doubt it is the most popular blogshop. But blogshop's success stems from one word- CHEAP.

blogshop is cheap. CK found on blogshop. => CK is cheap. Deductive reasoning, anyone?

anyway, it achieved its awarness target. but definitely not any sales from me. i would say, wrong move, CK.

last few moments of 2009/first few moments of 2010

last few moments, i was out with ah giang, knew her since i was 13. means our friendship has stretched to almost ten years already. WOW.

went to ginza bairin. the food?? 60/100 points. i hardly remember what was good about it. it just taste like other curry rice from other similar restaurants/cafe.

me & BF finally went to watch Avatar! When i first saw the trailer, i wasnt really into catching the show. but all the raving reviews made me wonder if i missed out something.

i am so glad we caught it in 3D!!! it was simply fab. BF couldnt stop repeating all the lines which he remembered. sigh. SHOPPING TIME! well... we gotta do something while waiting for the movie to start. once upon a time i would nvr even consider buying red-anything much less a tomato red jacket. but i saw one in Pull&Bear and fall in love with it. And wore it promptly after the making the purchase. lol.

some stupid cam-whore pics which i practically force BF to help me take. & no i will nvr buy red sunglasses to match my red jacket.

Chipmunks are simply sooOOoo cute. they would be cuter if they are NOT as tall as me though.

holidays are always fab fab fab!!! when is the next one coming...?

reflections for 2009

Dear Self,
It seems that 2009 passed by faster than 2008! How is that possible? But this feeling does exist. Perhaps Í am more acutely aware of how precious is time?

There had been so many unexpected happenings. Some made the year memorable while others made it a dread. But when one is down... there is no way but up. The feelings of disappoinment makes one bitter with life and I learnt a way to overcome that. i.e. Manage Your Expectations. I can never be too optimistic anymore- Expect Nothing and Nothing Will Disappointment you.

This 2009, I sure did accomplished some serious damage while on unexpected holidays! It was never in the plan to go Taiwan but I did. It was never in the plan to go Japan... But I Did. I am happy to say that I did it On My Own. I earned and saved what I could and go where I wanted. Stuff that you earned just taste sweeter.

This year, I discovered the word "Branded". I lusted after branded bags especially. I splurged on Kate Spade and Coach and Blue Label. But with my limited budget... the items I got are the ones that the shops are trying to offload and when the shops are trying to offload... there has got to be a damm good reason. Most of the bags Í've got are casual bags with NO zippers! Very easy for the pickpocket to target!! BUT I love them all the same.

Simultanously, I discovered "Quality n Style". I used to love to buy cheap clothes which has short life span. As I discovered the Branded, Qaulity seems to come hand in hand. I am slowly replacing my wadrobe with afforadable quality. I am also replacing my wadrobe with as much individual style as possible thanks to my addiction to foreign magazines. They make fashion fun & I want to be a part of it.

And for that reason, I had almost turned into a compulsive shopper who can't escape the lure of SALE. I can gaurantee that if there is a good sale... i HAVE to be there if only just to take a Look. This year has got to the year I've shopped the most so far.

This year... I've really had a lot. I had a lot of comsumerism and materialism. I had disappointments, uncertainties, fun, joy, laughter and a damm lot of good food.

Next year- year 2010. I will just take things one step at a time. My optimism and foolishness has decreased with age and experiences in life. & I am glad. They are gone for a reason.

Year 2010- I wasn't anticipating you. In fact, I kinda dread you. I don't know what you will bring and I don't know if I will be able to handle you. Hence, I will be clinging onto my new-found mantra for dear life. My sixth sense says it will be a crazy ride though :)