Wednesday, January 16, 2008

random relationship thoughts

hey. i can't wait for next friday.

i am always sleepy.

i often stone during work. hope the bosses dont think its serious enuf to fire me. it's like she had placed the piece of paper in front of me and yet i am still lookin at her expectantly. *shhiiiiitt!=S

hahahaahahah. i hope they find it funny.

spent this afternoon learning a single SAP procedure and it was made up of 6 steps! i am still alien to it and glad they understand. my bosses are generous with compliments n encouragements, so i really do not want to disappoint them!

a friend of mine is facing a rough patch in her relationship. sorry i couldnt ans u before u left. ( work- what else?)

the qtn was, should i patch up with my boyfriend?

here is what auntie eee thinks.

do you think you can really grow together instead apart? esp since both of us are in different stages of live. unless you and him are totally or even just 75% alive in ur mental age... then i say chances are... u will definitely grow apart and therefore, spare urself the trauma of patching and then breaking.

one qtn which is a MUST=ask. does he want a family with in 3-5 years? do you want a family by that same time frame?

(for me, i want a family when i am 25 n above. actually i hope to give birth early so that i can have a nicer figure back more easily.)

in anycase, i guess the conclusion to patching or not will easily be solved if you know what you and him want ultimately.

relationship is a form of companionship, isnt it? how can someone accompany someone else in life when the both of them are travelling towards a different goal ultimately?

and in that case, don't you think friction will definitely occur when you are reaching for your dreams in different directions? And you will also create more fiction if and when you try to deter him from his original direction to accomodate yours unless you convince him to reach for that same dream with you.

with you. WITH. not "instead of". or "behind". or "in front". well, maybe "beside" might be tolerable as well :)